Monday 14th July 2025
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Pleasure in the age of panic

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The 2023 Met Gala was another display of glamour and excess. The world’s A-listers raided Karl Lagerfeld’s closest and modelled the spoils of the fashion world. However, in my post-Met morning trawl through Instagram I found something more striking than Dua Lipa’s stunningly simple Chanel gown or Doja Cat’s furry take on her own title.

I was mesmerised by a video of the actress and singer Janelle Monae declaring that “this is the age of pleasure” at the Met Gala After Party. Recorded on fashion blogger @evanrosskatz’s Instagram, the Afrofuturist artist proclaimed she had “been in the age of struggle. I’ve been in the age of uncertainty. But tonight, this year, we are in the age of motherfucking pleasure. We’re actively doing the things that make us feel good, unapologetically.”

So, what does pleasure mean in 2023? I’m sure that for Janelle Monae, a Black, queer woman it means something very different to those who have never experienced oppression. It is perhaps an act of self-care reacting to centuries of historic and institutionalised injustice. Acknowledging this, I consider what a hedonist philosophy is on a more universal level, against the backdrop of the Met Gala, a cost of living crisis, and raging climate injustice. 

Pleasure is closely linked to hedonism, derived from the Greek hedone [pleasure]. Hedonists in the Ancient Greek Cyrenaic school advocate that life should be based around sentient pleasure – squeezing as much enjoyment out of life as possible. Epicurians have a different take on hedonism. They argue that pleasure is the absence of pain. Sounds familiar? That’s because it is incorporated into utilitarian philosophy developed in the industrial revolution. Utilitarianism forms the basis of our capitalist society. Through utilitarianism, pleasure becomes inextricably linked to capitalism.

It seems easy to say that the Met Gala signals a night of capitalist excess and hedonistic pleasure; after paying $50,000 for a ticket you would surely hope so. It marks the culmination of the icons and gods of Western society. They pose, clad in designer dresses and posited on the top of the Metropolitan Museum’s gilded steps, a veritable Mount Olympus for the modern age. It seems obvious that this is the age of pleasure: it has always been the age of pleasure in celebrity circles. Considering the exorbitant amounts of wealth bandied about on one evening, was this declaration from the dizzying heights of fame tone deaf to the cries of mortals below? Or is Monelle’s assertion a deeply considered insight into global futurity?

For those forced to choose between eating a hot meal or living in a warm home this winter the answer is clear. There is little pleasure when you are warm yet still hungry, or full but cold. Similarly, for those concerned with the world’s future which seems increasingly jeopardised by war and rising temperatures, this year has more closely resembled Auden’s The Age of Anxiety than Monae’s ‘Age of Pleasure’. For most, pleasure involves the sacrifice of something else. Opting for pleasure tends to stand for taking the easy way out through the avoidance of discomfort. However, personal sacrifices and lifestyle changes are needed to avoid ecological and climate crises. We have entered an age where the most useful thing we can be doing is buying less and flying less. Pleasure ought to be sacrificed for long term planetary goals: as Lord Byron puts in Don Juan “O Pleasure! you’re indeed a pleasant thing, / Although one must be damn’d for you, no doubt.”

The idea that we must be damned for our enjoyment marks pleasure, and its opponent, sacrifice, as part of utilitarian philosophy. Utilitarianism constructs the idea that to gain pleasure we must lose. Within capitalism, this loss is usually our money. Achievement of pleasure has become a capitalist construct. Pleasure has become marked by an instant dopamine hit of a card against a reader, a confirmation email, or the exchange of notes and coins. The search for pleasure is marked by fast fashion, where ‘stuff’ becomes disposable, rather than built for longevity. Stuff is thrown away so more can be bought. 

The creation of unenduring items which suit rapid and regular doses of dopamine marks an ecological nightmare. Pleasure-seeking, whether it be materialistic or travel, tends to conflict with climate planning. We need our goods to be fewer, and last longer, rather than have more which last less. In sum, we need to make decisions which decrease our pleasure for the sake of the planet. The afforded 1.5C of warming agreed in the Paris Agreement is forecast to be exceeded and achieving Net 0 by 2050 cannot roll around fast enough. For many, this is an age of panic.

So is there room for pleasure in the age of panic? What must we sacrifice to feel ephemeral joy in a time of crisis? Can we feel joy without sacrifice?

In order to answer these questions we have to ask ourselves, what is pleasure? Adrienne Maree Brown posits that our notion of pleasure has been constructed by white capitalist networks to suit its own ends in her book Pleasure Activism. Pleasure has come to be defined on material terms – it is the opening of a parcel or the buzz of ‘likes’ on a picture. Yet, if we remove constructed notions created by oppressive institutions and strip our notion of pleasure down to its roots it centres around primitive senses: love, good sex, art, natural beauty, good food, standing up for what is right. These primitive feelings, when carried out ethically and sustainably constitute a kind of ecological hedonism which need not revolve around sacrifice. They are both essential and adjunctive to our lives.

Adrienne Maree Brown argues that pleasure can be used to the advantage of activism in Pleasure Activism, but this only works if we re-evaluate what pleasure is. She posits that activism itself can be a form of pleasure rather than self-flagellating sacrifice. After all, how can we keep going if we live in a constant state of self-denial? Both pleasure and panic are ephemeral feelings. They are not sustainable feelings. Activism, commonly associated with uphill struggle and tireless effort, often leads to burnout. Maree Brown contends that activism can incorporate pleasure into it, as well as act alongside it. We can feel joy from being activists and encourage others to act rather than cultivate cultures of climate anxiety, depression and shame. 

Pleasure should no longer be defined by backward-looking oppressive institutions. Pleasure can be gained from, and alongside, activism. Pleasure can be seeing the colour of the sky, fighting for futurity, Black liberation. Pleasure need not sacrifice the safety of the planet or oppress others. By utilising pleasure and incorporating it into activism, perhaps we can combat nihilistic climate depression brought about by activist burnout. For Maree Brown and perhaps Monae herself, pleasure is derived by liberation from the capitalist establishment. Pleasure is freedom and justice. 

Image Credit: oatsy40/ CC BY 2.0 via Flickr 

Scientists highlight the importance of ethics in tackling the next global pandemic

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Estimates predict that there is currently more than a one in four chance of another global pandemic in the next decade, and scientists are seeking to find ethical solutions.

However, scientists are unable to estimate what kind of pandemic it will be. Whilst it could be a coronavirus (like COVID or SARS) or influenza, there is also the possibility of something which has not been seen before. This unknown future threat is referred to by The World Health Organisation as “Disease X”.

The threat of “Disease X” has seen scientists start preparations. This has involved the “100 day mission” which aims to develop a vaccine for use within 100 days of an outbreak of a new pandemic. 

Ongoing preparations have also started raining questions concerning medical ethics and priorities. 

In a newly published book from Oxford University press, Oxford’s Professor Dominic Wilkinson and Professor Julian Savulescu (National University of Singapore) tackle the question of an ethical approach to pandemics.

In it, Professor Wilkinson writes: “Pandemics raise the deepest ethical questions about the value of life, and how to weigh health against liberty. There is no simple formula.”

He adds that during the COVID-19 global pandemic and lockdowns, politicians said that “We need to follow science”. Professor Wilkinson worries that “science can’t tell us whether we should have a lockdown, or mandatory vaccination. For that we need thoughtful, careful ethical analysis”.

On the subject of priorities, the issues seen during COVID; i.e. not being able to treat everyone who needs a hospital bed, ventilator, oxygen or a vaccine are drawn to light. The book also stresses  the conflict of prioritising national versus international interests as well as the difficult barter between protecting public health during a pandemic and maintaining and growing economic activity.

These conflicts highlight the need to factor in ethics when attempting to ease the impacts and find solutions to the future “Disease X”.

Professors Wilkinson and Savulescu have successfully assembled a group of international experts in ethics, economics, philosophy and law to examine and evaluate the problems and lessons from COVID-19. Hopefully, they can distill the best solutions for future pandemics.

Have you Met the King? The Met Gala and the Coronation have more in common than you might think

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I always get inordinately excited about the Met Gala. I spend hours the next day going through the photos of the Gala, choosing my favourites, insulting the worst dressed and pretending like my opinion at all matters or that anyone asked for it. This year, however, the Met Gala happened to be in the same week as another event of enormous grandeur and splendour: the Coronation. It occurred to me that both are more similar than they may seem, though they took place thousands of miles apart.

They both have star-studded guest lists. Well, the Coronation had quite an eclectic assembly of people, as though the King had forgotten to invite enough people. It gives the impression that he went through his contacts and texted whoever could come. Lionel Richie? Yeah, he’ll get on with Andrew Lloyd Webber. Emma Thompson? She was great in  Nanny McPhee, put her in the front row. Penny Mordaunt? Everyone else said no- so let’s have her. 

Another thing crucial to both ceremonies is what we call pomp and splendour for the Coronation and campness for the Met Gala. The Coronation became a red carpet for the press. ‘What colours were in?’ ‘Ooh, did you see what the king was wearing?’ ‘I want one of those royal girdles for myself.’ 

I am personally not well acquainted with fashion. I have a rotation of the same clothes that I hope no one notices. My idea of fashion is wearing the same pair of jeans for a week, with a shirt and rolled-up sleeves. Anna Wintour I am not. However, I don’t think this is a prerequisite to judge the clothes either of the Coronation or of the Met Gala. As Simon Cowell would frequently say on the X factor: ‘you’re the one trying to have a singing career, not me’. They’re the ones trying to look fashionable, not me (evidently). 

Both events are undoubtedly controversial for reasons that at points overlap. Both are controversial for their unapologetic extravagance in a time when the country has the dark cloud of inflation looming over it. Despite the supposedly pared-down ceremony, it can seem insensitive and unfair that the king gets to ride in a golden carriage with gold trappings and jewels and riches. The Met Gala, similarly, looks like a scene from the Capitol in the Hunger Games, with everyone wearing opulent gowns whilst most are struggling to make ends meet.

It’s a sensitive issue. I understand that argument and I understand that people, quite fairly, take issue with the ostentation of each event. One is perhaps more unfairly criticised than the other. The Met Gala last year raised $17.4 million for charity; the Coronation cost the taxpayer tens of millions for security and the procession. 

However, other arguments for the existence of the royal family aside, I think that the coronation provides the country with a moment of aesthetic splendour. It may not seem worth it in the moment, but the unusualness of the event occuring in the 21st century causes such great pleasure. It is almost like buying a ticket to a ball – you can’t easily justify spending so much on a single night of your life. But it is a moment that most people won’t ever forget. 

The Coronation is a moment of great campness, like the Met Gala. It is a moment that is extravagant for extravagance’s sake. It is like inviting people to your house for a dinner party and putting out the fine china, the crystal glasses, the things you would never dream of using on a normal day. Although, if the King was crowned in a college, it would probably get shut down by the porters before he even had got the crown on his head. Yet the event provides us with joy from the fact we get to see something aesthetically pleasing, something that hasn’t happened for over half a century. There is something valuable in that. 

This country is beset by an inequitable distribution of wealth. However, the monarchy is the wrong place to direct your vitriol. They provide the country with occasions that will never be forgotten, occasions of enormous campness. When was the last time Elon Musk put on a concert for everyone?

Perhaps the Monarchy would have softened some of this vitriol by giving away part of their estate. The Royals don’t pay inheritance tax – what if they gave the same amount away to charity? Or what if the Queen in her will had left everyone in the UK five pounds? I think that would have made them a lot more popular. Caesar left everyone in Rome 300 sesterces in his will – if he could do it, why couldn’t she? 

I also know that this argument won’t change any people’s minds. People’s hatred for the royals sometimes seems to be innate, similar to a distaste for marmite or sardines. But hopefully it can explain part of the joy that people from every corner of the country gain from the Royal Family.

Image Credit: UK Parliament/ CC BY-NC 2.0 via Flickr

George Street Social — Brunching, but at what price?

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Talking to friends, George Street Social seems to occupy an intriguing place in the minds of students in Oxford. It gives the appearance of a high-end brunch and cocktail spot, and many steer clear unsure of what it really offers. In reality, it does just about everything from breakfast to lunch, dinner, and drinks. However, upon closer inspection of the prices, those same students might steer away from lunchtime or evening trips.

I went in around midday, meaning that I was able to try a selection of both the brunch and lunch offerings here. Many of those lunch dishes also overflow onto the evening food menu.

Brunch is probably what George Street Social is most well-known for and it is without a doubt where the best value for money is to be found. Served from nine until three every day, there’s everything from healthy granola and yoghurt to shakshuka. That shakshuka was certainly my standout, both in terms of taste and price. At just £9.50, the vegetable shakshuka comes alongside a huge serving of sourdough and is full of flavour-packed peppers and tomatoes. It has a lovely chilli kick to it that is balanced perfectly by the goat’s cheese and makes for a truly good-value and filling dish.

Vegetable Shakshuka

The pancakes on the other hand disappointed. Like the shakshuka, they are great value at £7.50 but that price shows in their size. Advertised as ‘American’, they were small and thin to such an extent that they simply couldn’t soak up the maple syrup drizzled over the top of them.

Berry Pancakes

Moving onto the lunch menu, the items here are high quality but also much higher cost. The nachos are definitely the best choice on the sharing options and are worth ordering alongside a few evening drinks. Our small portion was easily big enough for two or three people, costs just £6.50, and has a great balance of salsa, sour cream, and guacamole to balance the jalapenos on top.

Trout is served atop a truly good chopped niçoise salad complete with anchovies and olives. The fish is noticeably high quality, cooked and seasoned well. New potatoes always disappoint me as a side but these were made passable by so much dressing and weren’t overboiled. All in all, this is a good dish — the only thing that put me off was a price that I fear students simply can’t stomach.

Trout

There aren’t any desserts at George Street but there is cake. The selection is huge and interesting with everything from cookies and cream to red velvet. Disappointingly though, our red velvet and cookies and cream must have come from the end slice. Clearly kept overnight, the edges were rock hard to touch and both were dry throughout. It’s a shame because I don’t get the impression that this is normal but I’d be remised not to mention it.

Cookies and Cream and Red Velvet Cakes

Overall, George Street Social is good. Disappointingly though, I can’t say it is any more than that. The brunch offerings verge on great and the value proposition there makes it a worthy competitor to the famed Oxford Brunch Bar just up the road. Regular quiz nights and a long drinks list make it a good spot for evenings catching up with friends over cocktails and nibbles. Unfortunately, though, it needs to do a lot more to justify the high price point of its food at lunch and dinner.

In search of lost lives – The phenomenon of ‘Dark Tourism’  

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Upon entering the House of Terror, I was immediately struck by a great sense of unease. The idea of ‘Dark Tourism’ was not something that had occurred to me until over a year ago, on that overcast day in Budapest. Having frequented the ‘ruin bars’ and wonderfully hot baths, my friends and I decided to spend some spare time in one of the city’s most  popular museums. The imposing structure sits on a street corner, facing the large Andrássy Boulevard, and all around the outside are small black and white portraits of victims. A great metal cutout hangs over the edge of the roof, which, depending on the position of the sun, casts the word ‘TERROR’ onto its top-floor windows. 

At the entrance, I was confronted by the two memorials dedicated to the victims of the Nazi-allied Arrow Cross Party and the Communists’ Secret Police. Tickets in hand, we were then ushered up a set of stairs, past statues of Stalin, and into the first of the exhibits. The rooms of this museum are incredible, and it was quite unlike any exhibit I  had been to before. Each one, the work of architect Attila F. Kovács, is a thought-provoking and artistic statement in itself, and, most importantly, continues that impending sense of dread initially felt. A long table, lined with Arrow Cross uniforms on the wall, leads into another room where the entire floor is a map of prison camps. In another instance, every inch of a model kangaroo courtroom is covered with over 800 pages of documents recording trials and investigations. Next is an absurdly bright room, plastered with garish posters of an ideal communist workday, all whilst jolly music plays in the background. The lights are strategically bright, and to come from the almost sepia  courtroom to this sudden display of colour can only have the effect of disorientation. The House of Terror is not meant to be an easy experience. 

Further on, a large lift rises very slowly from the deep and dark basement. Once inside, a short film, detailing the method of execution by hanging is played. The man on the screen is seemingly indifferent, and the lift is horribly slow. The museum’s website describes this feeling of dread well: ‘Upon getting to the basement people are rendered speechless; it is hard to say or ask anything, to illuminate with human speech’. Here the darkness of the tourism becomes much more intense. Before, the exhibits fascinate as much as they sadden, but in the lift, there is no escape from the blunt presentation of the video. This lack of escape compels one to listen and accept the reality of the atrocity. In the  basement are rows of interrogation cells, and a few more exhibits of resistance and execution. I was reluctant to enter one of the cells, but I did so anyway. It was truly awful. The walls were dull grey, and there wasn’t much space to move. It was also quiet, forcing me to contemplate the use of the small room, and the many victims and abusers who had been in there. On the walls at the end of the basement, in the same style as those outside, are portraits, this time of the perpetrators of these crimes against humanity. What is most shocking is that some of them are still alive.  

We left the House of Terror, hardly speaking, and had lunch in a nearby cafe. A certain feeling of queasiness persisted throughout the afternoon. It was a deeply impactful experience, but the difficulty of ‘Dark Tourism’ is that the reasons for this impact can differ greatly from place to place. During the Easter Vac, I visited the Capuchin Crypt in Rome,  near Piazza Barberini. Here, underneath the church of Santa Maria della Concezione dei Cappuccini, were several tiny chapels, all containing the remains of 3,700 monks  displayed in intricate and artistic ways. On one of the walls, two coccyx bones and various smaller ones made the shape of an egg timer in a humorous comment on mortality. The  walls were lined with skulls and above, hanging from the ceiling, were great chandelier-like structures, all made of bones. Some skeletons were even stood up, dressed in the order’s distinctive brown robes. Here, there is no suffering. Instead, death provokes a more philosophical response. We are confronted with the stark reality of what will become  of us all, at least in the physical form. It is quite something to peer into the eyeless sockets of a skull and consider that this was once a person, with as many thoughts and dreams as us. 

What, then, actually is ‘Dark Tourism’? 

As is implied by the term, there is an element to the experience which is unpleasant, or at least unnerving. But ‘tourism’ makes it into something of a paradox, with its implied willingness. The question then becomes one of reconciling these two things. Amongst all dark tourist sites, there seems to be an innate connection to death or suffering. But in the case of cemeteries and crypts, it is a morbid fascination which draws us to them. Why, for example, do 3.5 million people visit Paris’ Père-Lachaise cemetery and its many famous inhabitants on a yearly basis? In my opinion, it’s because being closer to death moves us greatly. It’s not that going to these places poses any actual danger, but rather that here we can view death quite literally face-on. It is an interruption to our otherwise ignorant existence. We like to be challenged, and this sometimes involves us feeling scared and unnerved. Looking deeply into a skull, which cannot talk back, forces us to consider our own mortality and the fact that death is one of the few certainties in life. The phenomenon of ‘Dark Tourism’ happens for differing reasons, but the fact of death and its contemplation is central to all. Returning to the Capuchin Crypt, near a skeleton holding a bone scythe and a set of scales, there is a placard which reads: “What you are now we used to be; what we are now you will be…”

As a concept, Dark Tourism is very broad, but categorising or especially ranking different locations based on ‘types’ of atrocities or darkness feels unethical and deeply uncomfortable. The website dark-tourism.com practices this, but claims that the ranking is based on the emotional effect of the tourist in visiting the site, rather than the extent of  the tragedy. It is not meant to be a pleasant experience, and so perhaps the ranking does serve a genuine purpose, warning potential tourists of how stark and shocking some sites can be. But in light of atrocities, is this not really the least we can do? This, I think, is the other essential aspect of ‘Dark Tourism’. Acknowledging the dreadful things that have happened in the past, and what others have lived through, is an essential act of self-education. In order to know what the House of Terror actually is, for example, one must go there and deeply consider the suffering of the victims. When we learn about tragedies from the news or in the classroom, it is often through depersonalised statistics, but for us to truly gauge the magnitude of an atrocity, it is not enough to be a recipient of information. If we wish to improve our understanding, we have a responsibility to visit these places, to engage with the physical environment and to hope to gain from that an informed understanding of what happened. It is impossible to feel anything close to what those who were victims in the House of Terror felt, but by acknowledging their trauma and the people that they were, we can hope to honour their memory. Human suffering should never be forgotten or covered up, and ‘Dark Tourism’ can help in this respect. The survivors of tragedies will inevitably decrease by the year, and soon there will be no one to pass on an invaluable first-hand account. Many of them died for their political convictions or efforts against murderous regimes, and so we must seek to recognise these beliefs and, most importantly, the fact that these were people just as human as ourselves.  

There are, however, drawbacks to this phenomenon. Firstly, the term ‘Dark Tourism’  seems flippant, given the generally negative connotations of the word ‘tourist’. It perhaps gives the impression of a superficial, whistle-stop tour around sites of horror which specifically lacks the emotional engagement that is so important in visiting such places. Tourism is also an industry at heart, and it feels uncomfortable to think of profits made from the suffering of those who died long ago. Whilst there is potential for such exploitation, we can only hope that other sites follow the Auschwitz-Birkenau Foundation in using all funds for the conservation and preservation of the original remains. Greater ethical implications concern voyeurism, whether a sadistic minority would visit such sites for completely wrong reasons, and also poor conduct such as inappropriate photography, posing disrespectfully for pictures and generally dishonouring the memory of victims. Furthermore, there is also a great responsibility placed upon the people who have control over these sites today. The journalist Chris Hedges highlights this in his article ‘Alcatraz: A  Prison as Disneyland’. Here he claims that ‘The Alcatraz narrative as presented by the National Park Service ignores the savagery and injustice of America’s system of mass  incarceration’, and further claims that the omission of challenging details is akin to ‘whitewashing evil’. His description of the gift shop with various novelties is especially disturbing, a commercialisation of suffering. Admittedly, I haven’t been to Alcatraz myself. But if Hedges’ article is anything to go by, it does a great disservice to the impactful and educational potential of ‘Dark Tourism’.  

Fundamentally, ‘Dark Tourism’ locations are places from which we feel a strong emotional response to death or tragedy. They are places unique in their ability to educate humanity, often serving as precedents of things which should never happen again. Despite the problems raised, it is important not to generalise based on a few persons’ behaviour or the shortcomings of one location. I believe that ‘Dark Tourism’ has a genuine and important place in the spheres of travel and academia. These places allow us to understand what we hope to be the limits of human cruelty, and the only way to truly build a better future, is to learn from the past. The notion may be a cliché, but one that is no less pertinent. 

‘Dark Tourism’ is a difficult subject, and this article really is just scratching the surface. It is a phenomenon that comes in many forms. My experiences at the House of Terror and the Capuchin Crypt were both educational and both concerned death. But while the skulls were fascinating in an innately morbid sense, the House of Terror forced me to contemplate suffering and humanity in a way that I hadn’t before. And it is because of this that I would recommend it to anyone, strange though it may sound.  

Many years ago, I stood over a plaque on the HMS Victory in Portsmouth. It read ‘Here Nelson fell 21st Oct 1805’. I must have been about 10 at the time, yet I fully understood the significance of it. On this small section of the ship’s deck, a man was mortally wounded, who only seconds before had been giving orders in the throng of battle. Death is indiscriminate. It came to Nelson regardless of his rank or reputation. And so, as in the cells of the House of Terror, merely inhabiting the space in which someone lived their last was a truly grounding moment – realising that the victim of this misfortune was just as human as me. Perhaps then, it is this sense of grounding which draws us curiously to the experience of ‘Dark Tourism’.

An Oxfess on Oxlove

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I don’t know if I can truly call this an Oxfess. The presence of my name seems to take away from the anonymity which makes the Oxfess or Oxlove post so entertaining to compose and to read. Be it a heartfelt declaration of passion, or a (not so) subtle ‘up-yours’, this culture of turning to the internet to open up our hearts makes me wonder about this strange modern world that we live in.

The essential idea of Oxlove is great. A community entirely dedicated to thanking friends, celebrating people who make us feel valued, and cathartically confessing the secret longings of the heart is not only a thing of wonder, but also a thing of fun. I like the simple youthfulness of a tendency to fall for people we meet only in passing, who cycle through our lives in just enough time for us to make out the initials on their college puffer. The best posts have got to be the ones which show love for people whose kindness might easily go unnoticed. Team captains who give us a shot. The tute partner who makes you confident to speak up for your ideas, even though that tyrannical tutor was determined to put you down. A third year who gave you some bread when yours had gone mouldy. These brief but meaningful posts are a reminder that it is those small acts of kindness that so easily go unnoticed which ultimately make life beautiful. 

Nevertheless, it seems to me that Oxlove is changing the way we behave when it comes to emotions, which in turn is changing what the ‘love’ we are expressing actually means. By removing the vulnerability that comes with confessing emotion – admitting that you really appreciated help with that tute sheet, asking someone out for a drink, or confessing that you were hurt by the words your friend chose – love becomes a few digital words, without faces or names. Picture me sitting on my bed this afternoon, scrolling through Facebook while the essay draft on my laptop glares at me judgmentally. As I read Oxlove after Oxlove, I wonder why we feel more comfortable admiring the cute guy in red working behind the bar through an anonymous post, a post which is unlikely to be read by its intended recipient. Even if they were to see it, they could not respond. Maybe they thought that you were cute, too. Perhaps it would have been the romcom outcome you were fantasising about as you sat there sipping your drink on the opposite side of the room, admiring how he pulled a pint.

Admitting feelings can be hard because you might not get the reaction that you were hoping for. They might turn you down; perhaps you only liked them from a distance. After all, Oxlove is just a bit of fun. It’s a way of communicating, albeit indirectly, with people who we otherwise might not have the chance to connect with in our busy daily bustles. Yet, however I try to resist finding inspiration in a film that only gets a 49% rating on Rotten Tomatoes, I find myself thinking of We’re the Millers and the revelation, albeit ridiculous, of a tattoo which reads ‘no ragrets’. Whilst the tattoo itself might raise eyebrows, its essential message rings alarmingly true. Would it not be better to admit to our feelings, and save ourselves the worries of ‘what if…’

Our little confessions of love would surely mean more if they were spoken out loud, if they were unapologetic, vulnerable, and real. Oxlove seems to suggest that fewer people are taking a chance on love in ways that are genuine, spontaneous, and exciting. Surely what makes love (romantic, or otherwise) so meaningful is the chemistry that comes from face-to-face interactions, and the thrill of the risk of admitting how you feel. 

As I walked back from Tesco this evening (and realised that I had forgotten to get the milk which was the whole reason I had gone out to the shop in the first place), I fell in love with Oxford all over again. The sun was about to set, the golden stone bathed in a glorious May sunlight. Broad Street was alive with the chatter of groups of friends, couples holding hands in bookshop windows, and laughter being shared over beers at pub tables. Life seemed like a simple thing made out of people. It’s a thing that’s happening on the streets, in the shops and cafes, and along the paths of Christchurch meadow. 

I shamelessly confess that Trinity turns me into a romantic, but before you dismiss me and return to Facebook to bury your head into more heartfelt, chaotic, and simultaneously meaningful and meaningless confessions of love (and hate), consider this: next time, instead of reaching for your phone to share your love, take a chance on people in real life. The person who makes you smile each day will appreciate knowing the difference their presence has. Someone who is crying a few seats down in the library is likely to value your smile and kind words more than an anonymous message posted hours later. That person you’re admiring might just be admiring you back. Who knows? 

That simple act of spoken kindness might just change your life.

Between Love and Hate: The Strokes’ Guide to Staying Together

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Sex, drugs, and rock ’n’ roll seem like the sorts of things that are best enjoyed with friends. Since the conception of the ‘rock band’ in the 50s, thousands of groups have passed in and out of rock’s sizzling stir-fry of stars – some tossing and turning for decades, others burning to a crisp at once. However, fame, money and love on a world-size scale are harder to share than they seem, and very few bands make it out of the pan alive.

US-based pop-rock band The Strokes have encountered just about all of rock’s common killers. And yet, 22 years on from their first album, they are still here – and reportedly working on a seventh. What, if anything, can we learn from The Strokes about not just making it, but making it last?

Under Control: Drugs and Alcohol

The standard cause of collapse for a young, successful rock band is drink and drugs. Guns ’n’ Roses ran on booze and heroin, Pink Floyd lost their greatest musical visionary to LSD, the Smashing Pumpkins had to fire their bassist over her abuse of crack cocaine. The nature of the job is late nights, afterparties, alcohol and hard drugs, and while this has no doubt helped to shape the sound of modern music, addiction invariably damages the quality of musical output as well as intra-band relations.

Alcohol turned The Strokes’ frontman Julian Casablancas into an ‘asshole’ (in his own words), and by the late 2000s he was becoming difficult to work with. Phil Everly smashed a guitar over his drunken brother Don’s head for less, but Casablancas had the foresight to kick the drink in 2009, with guitarist Albert Hammond Jr. also beating a four-year heroin addiction around the same time.

Casablancas told Rolling Stone magazine that he ‘felt hungover for … five years’, but the band have nonetheless made it to the middle-age of their rock career, bruised but not defeated.

What Ever Happened?: The Decline

Perhaps the most impressive challenge that The Strokes have survived is the downward trajectory of their career. The band boasts six full-length albums and multiple EPs, but their first album, Is This It (2001), remains almost indisputably their finest work. Their ratings declined steadily across the following four albums, flatlining in 2011 with the chaotic and crumbling LP Angles. The years 2013-2020 saw only one EP, slipped out without ceremony on Casablancas’ own label Cult, and fans broadly considered the band finished. However, the high standard and success of their 2020 return The New Abnormal demonstrated how the intervening years had been a chance to reflect and right the project.

Early success is often a recipe for a messy end. The Smiths shot up but didn’t last long, shoo-ins to the rock hall of fame despite being active for a mere four years due to poor management. Today, the easily distractible public sees the young and TikTok-famous picked up, exploited, and dropped at will by the world’s biggest labels. The way of the meteoric rockstar is fraught with danger, but credit must be given to The Strokes for riding out napalm stardom and a steady decline without ever completely fading into insignificance or exploding into flames.

Take It Or Leave It: Life Beyond the Band

Often, the world wants a rockstar. And it picks one – Alex Turner has become synonymous with Arctic Monkeys, Freddie Mercury with Queen, Sting with The Police. Art is subjective, but money is concrete, and sometimes a band needs to give the world what it wants. One singer, one songwriter, one star, a formula which both made and broke The Police; for the rest of the band, it can be hard to take.

Julian Casablancas writes The Strokes’ songs. This has been the accepted order since Angles (2011), their only collaborative work, which was unpopular with fans and even more so with the band themselves. The other four members of The Strokes are musicians in their own right and yet have played peripheral roles in the creative process of their work. This has not held them back, though, and all of the band members have released music as part of other outfits and Albert Hammond Jr. has had significant success under his own name. Their interests stretch beyond music: drummer Fab Moretti has become an art dealer and Casablancas has invented the world’s first ever pedal-less foldable electric bike. Obviously. The band must not be all-consuming, and self-worth is best derived elsewhere.

Bands don’t always go down in a blaze of glory, and I believe that soon, The Strokes will simply stop. This should not be treated as a failure; they will leave behind one of the best albums of the last thirty years, a deep and varied discography, an adoring fanbase, and the still-falling debris of the indie rock revival which they kickstarted two decades ago. They have little more to achieve and yet less to prove. And while The Strokes’ career cannot be called exemplary until they navigate how it ends, we can already celebrate a band who, in spite of everything, have stuck it out and spared us the dismal speculation over what could have been.

Christ Church submits planning application to build 1450 new homes in North Oxford

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Christ Church, flexing the financial muscle of its £770 million endowment (the largest of any Oxford college), has submitted planning applications to Oxford City and South Oxfordshire City Councils.

Looking to develop land north of Headington at Bayswater Brook, the proposals would involve the construction of 1450 new homes, half of which would be classified as affordable. The development would introduce another primary school, nursery and 19km of new cycle paths to OX3. Residents worry that the development may put too much traffic pressure on Headington roundabout and overwhelm the existing GP surgeries in the area.

Speaking to the Oxford Mail, college treasurer James Lawrie explained that  ‘with Oxford facing a significant housing crisis, we are proud to be delivering vital homes to address Oxford City’s unmet housing need.’ 

He added, ‘we look forward to giving this development a distinct identity that integrates seamlessly with the surrounding landscape and will provide amenities and facilities for use by the existing communities at Barton, Barton Park and local villages to help bring the communities together through an innovative approach to long-term stewardship.’ 

Both Christ Church and their partner Dorchester Regeneration Ltd. stand to win an impressive contract on what the housing development industry terms “brownfield space”, should the proposals be accepted. Bayswater Brook is more commonly termed part of Oxford’s green belt. The proposed site encompasses the ecologically fragile Sidling Copse and College Pond SSSI as well as the Wick Copse Ancient Woodland and their rarity may pose a serious challenge since they are especially vulnerable to habitat collapse from increased visitor pressure. Extinction Rebellion held a ‘die-in’ in 2020 after South Oxford District Council accepted a development plan in the green belt – there is yet to have been a response by the group to the submission.

As Cherwell’s Vansh Sharma reported last month, in a city where no planning permission is granted for developments within a 1,200-metre radius of Carfax Tower that exceed either 18.2m (60ft) in height or 79.3m (260ft) above sea level (whichever is lower), big developments like this are sorely needed. But if accepted, the earliest quoted  completion date for the development would be in 2034.

Cocomelt — Syrian chocolate cafés come to London

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Some of the fondest memories of Sarah’s Syrian childhood were in the chocolate and crepe cafés that proliferated in her home country. Now, after making a dramatic shift from the city grind of auditing and seeing her brothers’ success with a similar concept in New York, she has brought that same chocolately feeling of home to London. At the same time, she has managed to capture hearts and minds from across the country and the world with creative dishes from sushi, burrito, and even fettucine crepes. If you can dream it, it is probably available in chocolate form at Cocomelt, and it probably tastes great too.

Now, we visited at lunchtime, so a crepe from the short but well-thought-out savoury menu was up first. Options here are limited and didn’t use to exist at all but after repeated requests, Sarah introduced them late last year. Ours was the Italian — a good balance between mozzarella, pesto, balsamic glaze and cherry tomatoes. It more than does the job for lunch and is light enough in flavour to allow the crepe mixture’s own flavour to shine.

The Italian

That crepe mixture is the result of constant testing and evolution. Sarah was helped by her brothers opening first in the US and they spent a long time perfecting the recipe first. Here though, with different ingredients and food regulations, the room was there for even better results. Over time, the outcome is a crepe that is light and full of a flavour all in itself and, most importantly to Sarah, not crispy!

The concept around the chocolate here is key to understanding the menu. Upon entering, you are greeted by three giant chocolate fountains: one white, one milk, and one dark. All of that chocolate is sourced from Belgium and every dish and drink is available with your choice of the three. The white is predictably sweet and the milk a little too much for my liking — the dark though is superb and a mix is often the best way to go depending on your dish. A scoop of vanilla ice cream is available with everything as well and seems sensible given the sheer richness of almost everything on offer.

Social media explosions have somewhat spearheaded Cocomelt’s success and, accidental or not, the signatures that it has become known for are photogenic and ‘Instagrammable’ to say the least. The crepe burrito is my standout — filled to the rim with all manner of tropical fruits and double-wrapped before being drizzled in chocolate. The fruits are the key here and wherever else they appear on the menu as they lend the necessary balance to the decadence of pure melted chocolate.

Crepe Burrito

Crepe sushi is on offer too. For my sins, I didn’t use the chopsticks provided (one day I really am going to crack this) but definitely preferred the banana-wrapped option to the brownie. The crepe layering here is much thinner than that of the burrito with similar amounts of chocolate with means the fruit is a better balance than ever.

Crepe Sushi

Fettucine might seem like an odd one to throw into the mix but is hilariously thought out here to brilliant effect. The crepes are cut up with a pizza slicer to create the pasta-like strips, the chocolate drizzle forms the sauce, and the strawberries sub in for mushrooms. Overall, this is the lightest of the bunch and ticks the box of your social media feed too.

Crepe Fettuccine

Waffle sticks and pancakes are also an option and the first is undeniably a good choice if you are on the go. The mini pancakes seemed a little tasteless to me when compared to the crepes and I’d say the same about the waffles too. If you are going to visit, absolutely go for the crepes that this place is so famous for.

Waffle Stick

Drinks are, as you might imagine, far from neglected. The coffee is described by co-founder Sarah as ‘her baby’ and after a long journey of exploration and education in the world of coffee beans and roasting, she settled on a local London supplier that provides the punchy espresso that I think is all but a necessity with dark chocolate. Hot chocolates are quite the creation with chocolate from the fountain steamed with milk to create a light and dangerously drinkable offering. The Biscoff twist is even more substantial — the process is identical with a generous offering of Biscoff spread added into the mix. The result? Ridiculously indulgent but one to steer away from if your teeth aren’t incredibly sweet.

Biscoff Hot Chocolate

The really remarkable thing to me about Cocomelt is the price point. In spite of constant and seemingly never-ending price rises from suppliers, everything here comes in at less than ten pounds per person. Clearly, that has allowed them to create a loyal and ever-returning customer base alongside the tourists that you might expect to be the main revenue driver so close to Covent Garden and Shaftesbury Avenue. Value is something so important to me and to Sarah too — it means that the memories of regular visits to similar places during her childhood in Syria are genuinely possible for groups of friends and families alike.

What Sarah and her team have come up with on Wardour Street is truly unique and perfectly fits the Soho market with both tourists and regulars so nearby. It’s no surprise to me that fairly rapid expansion is on the cards and I have faith that Sarah will do so in a careful and considered manner. Chocolate is just about my favourite thing in the world and, if you are the same, Cocomelt is one of those places that simply needs to be ticked off your bucket list.

Hopping into business: Oriel launches birthday beer range

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In celebration of its 697th anniversary, Oriel College has launched its own “specially-brewed range of beers”. 

The beer range was championed by the college’s lodge manager, Samuel Henry. He said: “a number of other Colleges use white label beers to create a ‘College beer’ but I wanted to create something special for the birthday which was uniquely Oriel.” 

The label is ‘697’ with the college hoping to continue with ‘698’ and ‘699’ leading up to the 700th birthday. 

Oriel has been working with “XT Brewing Company, with our staff participating in the brewing process. The selection of ingredients were chosen by the college to be sustainable, opting for UK-grown wheat and barley,” as Oriel Bar Rep, Alice McKenzie informed Cherwell

Since the launch event in April, the beer has been a resounding success. The Oriel Bar Rep told Cherwell that “even on regular bar nights, ‘697’ can be seen in people’s hands – it is clearly a crowd favourite”, and that “having tried it myself, I am a fan of the bitter, hoppy taste.” 

The beer is clearly more than just a fad.